With the trappings of technology we see an increase in self isolation and a perception of reality that is often viewed through the lens of social media apps and tv programming. Even amongst believers that proclaim to be born again believers in Jesus Christ we see a trip into the ditch for many. But one common happening I've been noticing more and more since the Covid lockdowns is an increase in narcissism and pride in women in marriage in particular. Satan has done an excellent job of killing, stealing and destroying people and relationships.
In particular the increase in female covert narcissism or some secular therapists also define these behaviors from women as borderline personality disordered traits but this one is particularly nasty. If you are married to a woman that has this going on in her life you will likely experience what is also described as a Jezebel spirit. The manifestation is focused on fulfilling of selfish desires. She will do whatever it takes to destroy her husband and then discard him so that she can move on to her next victim all the while thinking and truly believing she is doing something good. This is a spell these women fall under because they have not been kept in check by their husband, have been allowed or tolerated by their husband to do illegal drugs, get drunk, and abuse prescription pills for example. The easier a husband makes it for this kind of demon oppressed woman the more she rises up and demands full compliance from her husband so that he is a slave to the Jezebel. This destroys marriages, and the entire family. It is one of those things I never imagined could happen to me. In fact I believe I was prideful in my thoughts on this at times. But then things would manifest and subside and when you experience a relentless pushing away and trouble making and daily addiction it is hard to not get sucked into that.
This same thing has happened to many marriages with seemingly born again believers in the past. But with the events of the past two years it does seem people are growing colder towards each other. There was a time when I could pray with my now ex wife and this strange spirit of rejection would leave her but it wasn't long and she was back in the same state. Alcohol abuse exacerbates this bad behavior as well as anything that is an addiction from drugs to sex.
My advice to men that have been or are in that kind of situation is to seek God for healing in the marriage, but I also believe that sometimes there are biblical grounds for divorce. Especially when your wife has cheated on you or abandoned the marriage. Also, there is a concept that if you have no peace because your wife is constantly causing fights and trying to run you over and has a Jezebel spirit that you can try and come against that spirit and get her to agree to renounce it and cast that out. But often women will not be able to even see that is what is going on. They convince themselves that they are doing the right thing and they'll even convince themselves that the man has abused them sexually, verbally and spiritually. Any excuse to use to justify them leaving. A popular one is for them to say they were "scared" because the man in response to the pushing by the Jezebel raised his voice. Anything can be used and it doesn't need to be true because when these women are in this kind of demonized state they are consumed with some goal which involves this "new life" they have imagined.
If you are going through this kind of situation hopefully it ends with some miraculous healing of your wife. But more likely it will end in a painful divorce but the good news is you will have peace. And down the road when the next relationship for your ex has failed or is exactly the same kind of hell you went through with this Jezebel you can thank God it isn't your reality anymore.
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