Have you ever been the victim to someone that wants to control you? Do you have someone in your life that has been controlled by their family or a member of their family?  If so, what is the response that a born again believer in Jesus Christ should have? Firstly we must remember that we are fighting against Satan's army where he has all that do not believe in Jesus fooled. Unfortunately, he also has many believers fooled because their identity is wrapped up in believing what the abusers in their life have taught them that is anti biblical. For an unbeliever, happiness may be the goal of their life. But for a believer they may just be so confused about the abuse they have received that they remain bitter and hateful forgetting that the word tells us to forgive, to root out bitterness, to find our joy in the Lord.  It also tells us to focus on the good things not the bad.  If you think in your own mind that you can rationalize the way to be around a narcissistic con...

The word of God tells us not to cast our pearls before swine. We are to be wise as serpents but harmless as doves. But we do go through suffering and tribulations.  It is part of the spiritual battle we enter into the moment we are transferred out of the kingdom of darkness and into the Kingdom of Light as a born again believer in Jesus Christ and an Ambassador of Jesus Christ here in this world and in this time.  We have an eternal home that we will spend the vast majority of our existence in and it is not here but with Jesus. Jesus said: Let not your heart be troubled: ye believe in God, believe also in me. In my Father's house are many mansions: if it were not so, I would have told you. I go to prepare a place for you. And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again, and receive you unto myself; that where I am, there ye may be also. And whither I go ye know, and the way ye know. But we do go through things here that are very difficult.  Remembe...